If we discuss the ethics:I would disagree, the idea of forcing an idea or a program onto others is not ethical. Implying that one must or has to accept something is also typically "doomerism" inspiring.
Artificial Intelligence research and applications have been around for many decades represented in both hardware and software. The unregulated abuse of the open web, I believe, should not be tolerated. Technology should not be programmed to disregard the rights of the users, the license of different works, or the ability to choose not to participate. The alternative is force, and force always has resisitance.
Deciding what "we" do with it implies that "we" have a right to use the training data in these programs. And that is very questionable if not outright an abuse of the open internet.
1. We'll never agree on them pleasing everybody or even most people.
2. We genuinely risk that other countries develop more powerful models because they don't have the same moral itch as us. We must know how the models behave with all the data produced by mankind. It's a Faustian bargain that I completely understand.
The discussion is impossible right now because there's lots of noise and the extremes only see black & white.
We can only be pragmatic about this pushing for open models, open data and so on.