Golden question here. This is one of many reasons why I think the committers (or the FreeBSD desktop team) should ship and maintain a stable desktop release. Call it FreeBSD 13.1-DESKTOP, or something. That way anyone with any lick of curiosity can just download the iso, install, and quickly get a hacking environment running. No fuss or tweaking required. Throw a browser, mail client, and text editor in there and they can get started with hacking and/or communicate with the developer community. The Debian guys seem to be successful with this. Hell, it might even encourage more general users to try it out; thus more developer demand. For those who to customize their desktop can still just use the main vanilla installer.