That's funny right there.I know I'm an early adopter of FreeBSD
BSD has existed for about 40 or 50 years. FreeBSD for about 25 or 30. Quite a few people on this forum have run it for that long. I'm only at about year 15 (although I used other BSD-derived OSes in the 1980s).
Your post here is still completely unhelpful.
Here would be my suggestion if you want help debugging this: First, turn of all GUI; perform the same operations from the CLI. Make sure no other processes are running. While doing these operations, do some monitoring, like some combination of top, vmstat and iostat. Save the output of those. And then post exactly what you were doing, and how many IOs were actually running, and what the memory pressure is. You might be having an IO scheduling problem, or you might have any other problem.