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That's something I use as a passive test of character to see if a person treats you kindly and with respect no matter how you look, or sees you as someone who they could possible take advantage of because you might look like a tramp.
God Bless those who treat me in a polite and manner appropriate to the situation, and don't think it isn't appreciated or returned in kind.
God will have nothing to do with what lesson plan I think most appropriate in teaching those who underestimate me to a fault the error of their ways. Not everything rises to the level as lesson worthy and I'm the one learning a lesson about them, and all that's needed. The possible negative consequences of just the truth becoming known could far outweigh anything I was subjected to in comparison and taken into account to their benefit.
But that's up to me to decide and that moral compass of mine is spinning like a Quasar. Just a few hours ago the only real friend I have, after I brought up the subject of good and bad decisions, told me with brutal honesty if I "made a good decision it would be a bad one".
To jump on THAT wagon, I'm probably a HUGE moron for just valuing accurate information much more than feelings of a person ... hehe
That's why he's my only real friend, We both value it, expect it from each other and are as brutally honest with each other as we are with everyone else. Not everyone is appreciative of it as we are but hear it anyway.