I had a bad choice of words. I only meant that I am encouraged to hear that there are talks going on in regard to driver cross sharing within the BSDs and I appreciate all the hard work that the devs do in all the BSD projects. The amount of hardware and software support that exists is incredible. I just get excited seeing all the hard work and accomplishments happening and hope the sharing efforts are successful to the benefit of everyone.This sort of stuff triggers me - they are giving their time and valuable skills freely, so there's not really any "should" here.
I too donate what I can - like you, it's going to be money rather than any code - but feel it must be annoying for open source developers to be told what they "should" do. That's just my feelings, I don't claim to have any inside knowledge or speak for anyone other than myself. I know, I know, it is just a word.
Sorry, very OT. ?
EDIT: I honestly do understand how frustrating it is to have users request code changes and expect it to be easily accomplished and a fast process. It's actually infuriating. Especially for a single dev it can take months for a feature addition or change because every change requires an unknown amount of additional changes that are effected by upstream or downstream. And there's testing etc etc. .But, I didn't intend my comment to be demanding. Just hopeful for successful efforts in collaboration.