Like I said, I tried FreeBSD a very long time ago and didn't like it. I didn't like the community either.
I have only two versions why this topic has not yet been shortened: (1) the highest degree of friendliness and democracy of this community and/or (2) the great sense of humor of those who could do it. I suspect that you are joking too (the passage about Skype and editing documents in Office gave you away a little, be careful). Well, I edit documents exclusively in texlive and communicate via mail/xmpp - does anyone use them? No need )
Although the community does not need my advocacy, I would like to mention some aspects as a user to a user:
1) They wrote great books:
These books are written by excellent technical writers. This is not just technical documentation. The novice user will find in them not only a technical guide to FreeBSD, but also an advanced textbook on modern operating systems in general. In addition, there are excellent books by such authors as Mr. Lucas, McKusick, Neville-Neil, Watson, Gregg, Ramirez and many more.
2) In addition,
FreeBSD Foundation regularly publishes a journal that is worth reading, as it deals with current issues.
3) I am amazed by the excellent strategic planning that was demonstrated in particular when switching to LLVM/Clang. They planned it over 10 years ago, discussed it in an open democratic atmosphere, and made the transition. Years later, LLVM is the most promising library for the analysis and transformation of programs, which includes such intermediate representations as LLVM-IR, MLIR, Polyhedral representation and others (and by the way, all BSD systems are
supported). A number of these strategic moves have made FreeBSD a much more advanced system than any of the alternatives available.
Finally, I often look at modern conference reports and useful reports from past years. The speakers are not sassy, narcissistic boys, but mature tech speakers, proper fathers (and mothers) of solid software. As far as I remember, the most rude expression I read on this forum was something along the lines of "You should also read the documentation here and here". Thus, loving (or not loving) the community is a private matter, but it is a two-edged rope: they, too, can have their own opinion.