Will synth use swap if there is sufficient memory? Or, asked the other way, how much RAM should be present to use synth without swapping?...if using synth, which takes a lot of swap, but even in that case 64GB seems excessive.
Considering the transfer rate of around 100MB/sec for modern disks, filling 16GB sequentially (ideal case) would take about three minutes.Most probably you won't be using 1/4 of it.
hmm if I have zfs on root, how do I shrink swap?
  gpart resize [B][I]-i[/I][/B] index [[B][I]-a[/I][/B] alignment] [[B][I]-s[/I][/B] size] [[B][I]-f[/I][/B] flags] geom, see gpart(8)doas swapoff /dev/ada0p*
doas gpart resize -i * -a 4K -s 16G -f C ada0 * is the partition number, as shown in  gpart show ada0, or given from the output of something like: swapinfo | grep ada0 | cut -b 11 (if you're on GPT and swap is not a partition of a BSD slice)last pid: 11415;  load averages:  1.99,  2.84,  2.54                                                up 21+00:54:34  18:14:15
134 processes: 1 running, 130 sleeping, 3 zombie
CPU:  1.8% user,  0.0% nice, 11.0% system,  0.1% interrupt, 87.0% idle
Mem: 1210M Active, 4600M Inact, 330M Laundry, 9440M Wired, 271M Free
ARC: 7044M Total, 4735M MFU, 1011M MRU, 6980K Anon, 384M Header, 907M Other
     5300M Compressed, 5941M Uncompressed, 1.12:1 Ratio
Swap: 5120M Total, 275M Used, 4845M Free, 5% Inuse