My regular (bald boomer's) X desktop world that takes about 10 mins to install with some apps and toys inA regular desktop is so easy. There actually should be a document with a democratically decided sequence of installation commands leading to a full FreeBSD graphical desktop.
I use a bald X.org with openbox and xterm only. No need for anything else in my standard installation. Forever resident programs are needed for barely anything.
Xfce DE
pkg install xfce (DE)
pkg install tilda (Yet another fancy xterm implementation)
pkg install xpdf4 (Simple PDF reader)
pkg install xviewer (Simple image viewer)
pkg install en-hunspell (English spellchecker)
pkg install gotop (Neat top)
pkg install fastfetch (Pretty sys info)
pkg install ufetch (Tiny sys info)
pkg install waterfox (web browser)
pkg install gimp (Image editor)
pkg install vlc (Multimedia player)
pkg install mplayer (Multimedia player)
pkg install kdenlive (Video Editor)
pkg install simplescreenrecorder (Records video/audio of webcam or GUI desktop)