This system that is failing is the PE R450 with H755 RAID ...
"I think LSI supplied the FreeBSD driver for the previous RAID generations and maybe they haven't for the H755 etc." ...
No, there is some confusion here. I suspect that a Dell H755 card is nothing but a LSI/Broadcom/Avago 3916 chip. Probably all Dell does is to make the PC board and the connector, buy the chip from Broadcom, minimally modify the firmware of the chip (probably mostly to change the model name and number to be "Dell H755"), and then ship it. That is how most HBA/RAID cards are done. The support questions is 99% about FreeBSD support of the LSI 3916.
How do we convince someone to look at it?
FreeBSD is a free operating system, and support is mostly friendly people on the Internet giving you tips (like SirDice above). If you can find a concrete bug in FreeBSD, you could file a bug report ... but saying "it crashes but I don't know where and why" is not a concrete bug. I also suspect (without direct knowledge) that LSI/Broadcom funds the software engineer(s) who writes the mrsas driver; if you were a large Broadcom customer, you could contact them for engineering support (BTDT, got the T-shirt). You could in theory contact Dell, but my educated guess is that they'll say "FreeBSD who? not our problem, we support Linux and Windows". And my educated guess is that if you contact Broadcam directly, they'll say "you're not a customer".
I tried running the FBSD 13.0 installer USB on the R450, and it crashes at the same place with exactly the same error.[
Was that with or without the LSI-based HBA in the system? If it was without, then the R755 is not the problem. If it was with, then it is possible that the R755 is the cause of the problem, even when not booting from it. In that case, after checking for the mfi versus mrsas question, I would get hold of a kernel with debug symbols and look at the stack traceback when it crashes.
By the way, somewhat unrelated: I always thought that the standard RELEASE kernel has symbol names; when I get stack tracebacks, there are function names there. Or am I hallucinating?