I went through
portupgrade today and it I let it update Xfce4. It presented me with an options screen to compile with GDM support, thunar, and some other options. After clicking ok, I realized I made an error, and do not want GDM (nor the GDM dependencies), so I broke out of the update. Is there a way to now tell it I don't want GDM? Everytime I go to: /usr/ports/x11-wm/xfce4 && make install, it doesn't ask me for these options anymore, but still is bringing in the dependencies. How can I reset them so I don't get GDM, nor any GNOME dependencies?