Yes, good point. That is certainly everyone wants to advocate here. We should and could stop lagging behind by doing our own agenda.I think FreeBSD/OpenBSD/NetBSD/DragonflyBSD should start doing the same and produce stuff that is *BSD native (so to speak). Otherwise it's just going to keep lagging behind ... (also note that I'm talking about desktop)
If it does not match the allocation of resources agenda of the FreeBSD Foundation, maybe we should start thinking about separate funding native *BSD-Projects that are still terribly neglected but needed?
In mean time I certainly would use Wayland too if it were available.