nuBSDuser said:So yea I want to apologize for all the ranting, I know I need to read all the docs just haven't had the luxury of time and wanted to get up and running quickly
I want to have a full flavor of all os's so I will learn all the ins in outs of BSD in time.
Compared to ubuntu(from where you are coming, i'm guessing) the "get it up and running" part differs greatly. For Ubuntu this is a desktop with gnome with all the bells and whistles that they have packaged, for FreeBSD it's the base system with no user land programs(X, gnome etc).
You really need to start reading the documentation if you want to use freebsd, which will take no more than 1 hour for the basic settings(The I. Getting started part). If you just want it up and running there are other options out there like PC-BSD or DesktopBSD which are based on FreeBSD but have an initial GUI environment(usually KDE) that probably will soften the initial step to a *BSD OS.
As for "package managers"/"ports manager" that you might be used to from ubuntu, they are listed in the handbook(portupgrade or portmaster or portmanager, yes you get to choose...). However they are based on being used in the console and not as a GUI. The .deb repository and functionality is a debian/ubuntu specific thing, not a common linux package distribution system.