I'd like to see the associations among clients and server
% sockstat -p 443 -s -4
USER COMMAND PID FD PROTO LOCAL ADDRESS FOREIGN ADDRESS PATH STATE CONN STATE
www nginx 97042 3 tcp4 192.168.1.87:443 192.168.1.64:60910 ESTABLISHED
www nginx 97042 8 tcp4 *:443 *:* LISTEN