In latest upgrade i was pleasantly surprised..on the list was this: nvidia-driver: 595.104.02 -> 595.112.07 [FreeBSD-ports], nvidia-drm-612-kmod: 595.104.02.1501000_1 -> 595.112.07.1501000 [FreeBSD-ports], nvidia-kmod: 595.104.02.1501000 -> 595.112.07.1501000 [FreeBSD-ports]...So no mismatch anymore!! It seems, that maintainers improved synchronization between these components. Happy nvidia user here
If mismatch ever happens again, it would be good to have notice by pkg before pkg upgrade is performed, but as it seems it all behaves correct.