blue screen with options

I tried to installed databases/mariadb101-server from the ports. When you doing a make for the first time, some kind of menu driven tool will be in front for selecting some options. Just like configure with params. At the end (after installing several dependencies) the installation occurs an error with ld4 package. I saw mroonga will not be installed.
So I want to deselect de mroonga option, but when I run make install clean again,
the blue screen with options (configure) will not appear.
How do I start fresh again without the option mroonga?
make rmconfig removes the options (effectively setting them back to default), make config allows you to set them again. See ports(7).