As advised by others in this thread, I have tried to upgrade to
graphics/drm-61-kmod by building from ports. After installing and rebooting, no graphics device is found, so I can't run Wayland, as I do with 515.
But the full system crashes with 515 still persist, seemingly a bug in the driver. I just had one, which resulted in dumping me into single user mode to run fsck, because there were soft update errors in the root file-system (I note that OpenBSD has removed support for soft updates; too many problems; one would think that after all these years, the bugs would have been found and fixed). I ran fsck and was presented with a huge number of unreferenced files and the request to clear (yn). After typing y<enter> countless times, I finally gave up and rebooted the system, which noted that the root filesystem was still dirty, ran fsck and automatically cleared the remaining unreferenced files. The system is up, but chrome complained that my preferences file was corrupted.
I'm sorry, but this is simply not acceptable with Linux or OpenBSD available as more reliable alternatives and I'm going to switch. I need to spend my time doing my work, not dealing with problems caused by bugs in components as fundamental as the graphics driver and the file-system. I also just submitted a bug report that describes an apparent problem in the USB support causing USB devices to be, in effect, umounted on waking from use of zzz.
I am attaching a dmesg in hopes that will help whoever maintains drm-xx-kmod to figure out why 61 does not work with my system.