Two ways to achieve that. One is by adding those options to a 
make.conf so they're always applied when building. The other is by running 
 poudriere options and setting them that way (those options are kept in specific directories linked to the ports and jail names).
	
	
	
		Code:
	
	
		root@molly:/usr/local/etc/poudriere.d # ll
total 166
drwxr-xr-x  316 root  wheel   316 Jan  3  2021 122-release-server-options/
-rw-r--r--    1 root  wheel  1018 Jul 10 18:09 122-release-server-package.lst
drwxr-xr-x  166 root  wheel   166 Jan 30 19:28 13-stable-server-options/
-rw-r--r--    1 root  wheel   834 May  3 18:11 13-stable-server-package.lst
drwxr-xr-x  340 root  wheel   340 Mar 20 19:07 130-release-desktop-options/
-rw-r--r--    1 root  wheel  1152 Jul 21 01:18 130-release-desktop-package.lst
drwxr-xr-x  342 root  wheel   342 Jun 21 21:21 130-release-server-options/
-rw-r--r--    1 root  wheel  1484 May  9 15:11 130-release-server-package.lst
drwxr-xr-x    2 root  wheel     6 Jul 22 09:22 hooks/
drwxr-xr-x    5 root  wheel     5 Jul 10 18:04 jails/
-rw-r--r--    1 root  wheel    73 Dec 24  2020 make.conf
drwxr-xr-x    5 root  wheel     5 Jul 27 16:06 ports/
-rw-r--r--    1 root  wheel    20 Nov 18  2018 server-make.conf
-rwxr-xr-x    1 root  wheel   388 Feb 17 09:58 up_all.sh*
	 
 I have three versions; 
122-release, 
130-release and 
13-stable. Combined with two different option sets, a 
desktop and a 
server set. I know all the 
desktop sets are configured exactly the same, regardless if I build for 
122-release, 
130-release or 
13-stable version. Same deal with the 
server set. Some common options, like the default MySQL version, are set in the common 
make.conf.