Personally? At home?
I still have two Exabyte 8mm tapes (one 2.5gig, one 5gig), and one Digital cartridge drive (I think it is called TK-something). All connected via 50-pin SCSI. I think all the TK cartridges were copied to disk about 10 years ago. The last time I turned on the Exabyte was perhaps 5 years ago, to read one tape; took all afternoon, but eventually worked. I don't even remember what machine I used for this; probably not *BSD, since I've never had BSD on a machine with a slot for a SCSI controller. Most likely it was some Linux flavor.
I know that there are about 50 or 100 8mm tapes at home that have not been copied to disk yet, but I very much doubt that they will ever be read, because they are not backups of file systems; they are scientific data from a long-ago experiment, which will never be re-analyzed again.
Professionally? I've worked for large computer companies for the last 25 years all so. All of them use tapes heavily, some of them even build tapes. Matter-of-fact, quite a few of the folks at IBM research who do the R&D on tape heads are friends of mine; I used to work one hallway down the building from them. About 10 years ago, I got a patent for a bizarre little improvement in tape technology, working with another person from the same department that does tape head R&D.
In spite of rumors to the contrary, tape is NOT dead. It may be shrinking, and it might die in 10 or 100 years. Or perhaps 1000.