I still think it's possible to get rid of most Linuxisms. I have setup a simple desktop using Openbox, Tint2, Cairo-Dock and Compton. I found a good automounter solution for usb drives that only uses devd. I learned that BSD uses OSSv4 for sound, not ALSA and not Pulseaudio. Mixing all these Linux things in causes lots of trouble. I also found a volumewheel applet for tint panel, that works fine with FreeBSD mixer.
It is possible to avoid most of these Linux things, but it is a hard way, and it is even harder not knowing "what is Linux, and what is native BSD?".