I've got some massive slowdown that happens when i start my webserver....it's not a very busy site and the server is pretty powerful, quad core xeon 8 gb ram. It's really weird, things start off fast but slowly get lagged...and the lag is strange too...it's almost like the connections are "backed up" because when you try to connect to a page it lags for 10-20 seconds then loads ALL at once....i'm really confused, i've tried apache prefork and worker, and even lighttpd.