question about software of best security xmpp server in freebsd14.3 ?

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dear all:
i want to build a xmpp server with some software (looks like ejabberd ,prosody....etc) in freebsd14.3 . but i don't know which one was better in freebsd14.3 ?
please show me some advisements. and installation manual of step by step ,or link. thanks.

 

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hi all :
i have fellowed below link to configure ejabberd server . https://www.codedge.de/posts/modern-messaging-running-your-own-xmpp-server
but it's not working in freebsd14.3 ? do you have some manual or step about this ? thanks.