considering the amount of time it takes to absorb and process everyone's "special sauce" in their particular distro, distro jumping isn't an effective use of time. I stayed with the big two: red-hat (centos and fedora) and Debian...once distros became relatively stable. Before that I toyed with slackware, but did most of my critical work on BSDi (bsdOS)
I have to agree with this. It's either a special sauce of one of those two, or even more special sauce and much less infrastructure. Fedora and Debian attract the bulk of people working on linux DEs, probably because they too prefer to maximize their efforts.
Sadly, it feels like Mac is the new Windows, Fedora is the new Mac, and Debian is just effing annoying to work with. Everything takes research, Fedora just *works. My issue is with the direction it's *working in these days, it just has that corporate feel that made me turn from Windows over a decade ago to begin with. Mixed with a bunch of idealism about random things when I'm just trying to watch a youtube video while I fill out a spreadsheet.
Which means FreeBSD is the new Linux. Which may bring its share of problems in the short to medium. I doubt I will be the last of this new migration wave. Like all the people moving from California to Florida, but then wanting to turn Florida into California.
But I think the governance structure and history of FreeBSD vis a vis Linux will give it a special resilience. Let's hope.
I started with Ubuntu Gnome back when it looked like Cinammon does now, after it ws suggested to me by my programmer uncle. Must have been 15 years ago? Things were buggier, but fun, but buggy enough that I would return to Windows every so often. Then 5 years or so ago I decided to try Fedora, and that stuck. I think if I hade done that from the beginning, it may have stuck from the beginning. But I let myself be swayed by the narrative that "Fedora is for servers, Debian is for users." The things people say.
Also used #! for a few years, that was a lot of fun.