okay, so I read the conversation only from the first page.
In short: yes, it is possible to install FreeBSD dual boot on a laptop.
Is it sensible? I am not sure. (more on that later)
I have been using FreeBSD sporadically since 2008-09. On my desktop, when I installed FreeBSD for the first time, I had it alongside Windows XP, a linux, and third was FreeBSD. It didn't show up in the boot menu. I had to edit grub file in linux, and then boot entry showed up fine.
Then I installed it on a an older laptop which had a dead battery, and it used to run on direct power. That laptop used to get heated with FreeBSD, but had no issues with Win 7.
Around 2014ish I got another desktop, and FreeBSD was my main OS. The desktop had dual boot with Win 7, but I rarely used it.
In 2017, I got an Alienware laptop, and I installed FreeBSD on it as well. The laptop had UEFI, and unusual boot settings. In order to use FreeBSD on it, I had to turn off the secure boot, and it booted up fine with minor settings in BIOS.
But soon after using FreeBSD on that new laptop, my battery got worn out. I am still not sure about the cause, but I think it may have been FreeBSD, not sure. That's why I don't think it is a sensible idea to use on laptop. But times have changed. Maybe its okay now.
I got a new optiplex a couple of months ago. My employer is okay with me using FreeBSD, but the desktop came with Windows 10 (I chose it over 11). I have installed FreeBSD on it along side Windows 10, and FreeBSD is my primary OS, or "daily driver".
The only thing with that hardware/installation is, I dont get a boot-up screen asking me for OS. Every time I want to boot into Windows, I have to go into one time boot options (by pressing F12), and then I choose Windows.
Whether you can set-up dual boot with FreeBSD, or what type of options/menu you get is depended on your laptop/motherboard.