Can't see any way to completely wipe a system if you only have remote network access to it. The closest I can think of is to remove all your data but leave the OS running, then write /dev/random to a file on each partition until it fills it up. Doing that a few times *should* do a decent job of overwriting all the space on the disk that was holding your data (although I'm no data removal expert). Unless you really don't want anyone knowing what OS you were running, I can't see why leaving the OS behind should be a problem.
Alternatively, as mentioned, if you can convince someone with physical access to boot off a live CD of something, then quickly configure networking/ssh, you can log in remotely and just wipe the disk with software of your choice.