stratacast1 , I have several VirtualBox VMs running on my laptop (to test some code, compile kernel etc...) and I have had no issues similar to those you mentioned. Is there any specific reason why you use ports and not
pkg(8)?
Hey fnoyanisi! Thank you for the additional information, I have been living off the documentation this whole time, and that plus blogs/guides has really been a big help for me. The reason why I have been doing ports more often is because I like the idea of getting some extra code optimization for my hardware that comes with compiling on the machine
Trihexagonal, I tried some more of what you guys have been saying and put FreeBSD on an my old Gateway with a Phenom (and 4GB RAM) and everything seems to run rock solid. I have found that currently the issues I am having running this on metal has to do with py36-iocage now. I grabbed iocage and did freebsd updates using pkg. The problem with iocage is being investigated on github so hopefully a patch is released soon! Currently I cannot destroy or even restart jails, but I can create and use jails.
I would say I'm generally well seasoned at Linux and Linux administration, but I want to learn FreeBSD because it looks like a more cohesive system, and I think I could trust it more on my own server than Ubuntu Server.
Datapanic - I'm not implying any BSD sucks, I just wanted to see if my problems were just anomalies that came from using FreeBSD in VBox or if there were just some known issues right now with 11.0-RELEASE. Seems more and more to be just a few anomalies with VBox (like pkg barely works with a bridged adapter, but just fine using a NAT interface).
My Ubuntu Server just kernel panicked as I was typing this so I'm getting more antsy to get FreeBSD on it

I just want to keep an eye out on iocage. I don't trust myself with raw jail management just yet. My Proliant has a quad core Xeon, 8GB DDR3 ECC memory (soon to be 16GB), a 120GB Samsung 840 EVO for the OS and 2 2TB Western Digital RE4 drives doing a mirrored ZFS pool, but may get another 2TB for RAIDZ1 so I can imagine this is nothing to sneeze at for FreeBSD